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The differences between these two are a source of my fascination for them…

Her free spirit that amaze him; his shyness & seriousness that attract her.

Yes, he was be a bit reserved during the first few weeks of their togetherness but she help him lose his shyness. From the stories, she is (likely & mostly) initiate the romance since he is more receptive. In fact, she continue leading all through the relationship.

Then she finds out, He soften some of her energy.
As exchange, she seek what gap she need to fill in for him;
” Ill to make sure he doesn’t get bored!’ she said, with her excitement mind, almost yelling

Because, she noticed, he have his routine, security and comfort. To her, routine equal boredom. So does security and comfort, for that matter. And if there’s one thing she hates, it’s being bored.

So she went, she popped this idea, to come up with new projects and he offered him to provide the plans and focus to successfully complete it.
He must collects heaps of information before making a decision to act on it or not, tho… He didn’t realize, she is always in a hurry and has to do everything right now.
While she couldnt see, that on the other hand, he takes his own sweet time to fully understand a situation, measuring, measuring, measuring to resuming, then…take a particular and moderate action.
She burned out, because she likes to get things done yesterday, while he always plans for the future. In the meantime, she notice, she does have a hard time of his inability to finish anything he started.

I giggle myself when i know, one time, she thinks he is just immovable objects; simply a things to kick aside, or melt with the charming force of her flame.

Amazingly, they both very cautious, in love, relationship and all the other matters in life.

But, of course, still, she’s the one who may (often) fall as a result of her too rash decision.
Unfortunately; he usually respond in a “I told you so” manner.
Yes, I can see, her point of view that he can give stability and dedication to her ambitions.
But, she help in bringing some more excitement in his boring life.
I see, she puts in a lot of effort to spice their togetherness.
He should see this quality as a positive thing rather than being critical about it.
I supposed its doomed for her? Maybe, but maybe not.
Well, If he can accept her enthusiasm (not practical) it might just work.

She is hard-headed, while he is stubborn.

She shoves – he sits.
She pushes – he grumble.
She demands – he digs in.
She weeps – he walks.

yet, when she smiles – he soften.
when she persuade – he cuddle.
when she hugs – he beam
when she seduce – he flattered

The way i read it, it’s (mostly) always she who initiates the first move between them

She is extravagance, he is bloody cheap.
She wants excitement, he keep finding peace and quiet.

They don’t admit… but
She’s actually a Jealous person, and He is possessive.

For her, passions, is a form of release – mental, emotional, physical and spiritual.
For him? I should ask him, but, its his concern DOH!
She told me, together, they have the passions, anywhere from the deep down in the sea to a bunk bed.
Funny thing, she whinge that she have to always (mostly) aware that he doesn’t fall asleep just when she’s ready for more. So I told her, catch him before he drifts off to sleep, he is very sporty anyway, and so he do require plenty of rest.

After her long whinge and whine story released, she roll her eyes up, (maybe imagining him) and told me….

“(sigh) I know, if he’s handled gently, with consideration for his own feelings, he will stick by me.
He does and will love me through the darkest storms.
He does and i know will, stands like a rock of solid love.
Till now, he covers my miseries…which comes from my own mistakes.
I…always, miss His warm protective blanket of cuddly devotion.”
then…close her eyes…ends it.

I? …wuiih!…

They just have to learn and enjoy the mutual fascination for their very differences.

What a story from white bed sheet where it started